I’m a pretty lucky guy, even though it doesn’t really translate into getting lucky, if you know what I’m saying. That was a sex joke.

I was born in Canada, which might be the best country in the world, with the exception of the crappy weather most of the country gets. I have great parents, who were kind enough to let me stay in their basement even after I turned 18. My Dad was, without a doubt, the biggest financial influence in my life. He taught me the wonders of compound interest, ways to use leverage to enhance returns, and the importance of living frugally, which should pretty much be a no-brainer at this point.

Because of a great support system and an education unlike most other kids got, I quickly took a shine to financial matters. While other 18 year olds were concerned with getting drunk and hooking up with strangers, I studied balance sheets and read every personal finance book I could get my hands on. I remember intentionally avoiding going out with my friends to stay home and watch the business channel on TV. I’m clearly a bummer at parties.

I’m the first to admit that, statistically speaking, I was set up to accumulate wealth.

Let’s compare my story to my sister. Without going into too many details, she is, shall we say, not as skilled at the art of wealth accumulation as I am. We are at two very different points in the financial spectrum. Why am I so good at accumulating wealth, while someone who had the exact same upbringing so bad at it?

This brings me to a post from Andrea over at So Over Debt, all about how being poor is more complicated than most of us think. For those of you who don’t know how to use a mouse well enough to click through, let me summarize. Poverty is complicated, most people who end up poor do so because of all sorts of factors. A series of bad choices, combined with a poor upbringing or whatever, and we end up with someone who’s poor. I’m painting in broad strokes here, since I kinda have to in just a one paragraph summary. Go check out the post for the whole story.

Since I’m at least 94% sure that post was directed at least in part towards me, let’s take off the gloves. It’s scrappin’ time! Hopefully Andrea doesn’t kick me in the balls or something if we ever meet. Because I wouldn’t put it past her.

Around here, I talk a lot about ways to accumulate wealth. I think that it’s really not that hard. All you need to do is spend less than what you make, do it consistently, and the results start to add up. If you can increase your savings rate by earning more, the results get accelerated even more. There are all sorts of examples of people from every economic background, from every sociological background, and from all sorts of broken homes that manage to accumulate wealth. Why is that?

I’m not sure what the answer is, but Andrea thinks she does. And she thinks it’s luck.

Frankly, the notion that luck plays anything but a small factor in my journey to become wealthy is an insult to all the hours of study I’ve put into the subject, all the hours I’ve spent researching potential investments, and all the hours I’ve busted my hump working hard, physical jobs in order to make excess cash to invest. Sure, I was lucky to win the ovarian lottery, but that’s where the luck ended. Everything else I’ve accomplished it’s because I’ve worked for it.

There are millions of people who are just like me. They were born in a first world country, to parents who raised them to the best of their ability. They had teachers who encouraged and challenged them. They are intelligent enough to go off and finish high school, and a large percentage of them ended up going to college as well. I’m hardly alone in getting these advantages.

And yet, a small percentage of us privileged folks are accumulating serious wealth, while the rest wallow in debt brought on by bad decisions. Some of us are buying stocks and real estate and other assets, while the vast majority buy crap that goes down in value every time they touch it. Some of us make every single major live decision with one goal in mind – how will it help me get rich? After spending the past 10 years working single-handedly towards one goal, it makes me upset that someone can just write off my efforts by declaring that the only reason I’ve been able to accomplish what I have is because I haven’t had any setbacks.

There’s a significant minority of the population that, for whatever reason, simply cannot get wealthy. They’re the types of people who are lucky to even stay gainfully employed. It may be cold up here in Canada, but we have a support system that ensures their basic needs will always be provided. I’m happy to exchange a slightly higher tax rate in exchange for that safety net, just in case I ever need it. We can’t simply flip a switch and make these people into middle class citizens with good jobs. But, at least from my perspective, I’ve never written a word that was intended for people in that situation. Those people don’t need a personal finance blog, they need someone to teach them the basic math skills needed to make a budget in the first place. To compare someone in that type of situation to a college educated person isn’t helpful.

Millions of people are smart, educated, and ambitious enough to put themselves in a position where, with years of hard work, they can begin to become financially independent. And yet, most don’t bother. It’s difficult to dedicate your spare time to learn how an investment really works. It’s hard to take your excess capital and invest it for the future when a MacBook Pro looks all shiny and pretty. The richest among us weren’t alone in being lucky enough to be put into a position to succeed, yet they are alone in succeeding. Why do they rise to the top, while everyone else suffers through mediocrity? Nobody can tell you the exact answer, because every situation is different. What I can tell you is that, while luck plays a factor, it’s not at the top of the list.

  • http://www.themoneyprinciple.co.uk/ Maria@moneyprinciple

    I don’t believe in luck but I do believe in opportunities. Whether one takes them or not is another matter – but the opportunities have to be there. Like your Dad, for example. There are many people who have hardly any opportunities and are too tired of life to create them.

    Interestingly, I thought that choosing a side in this debate would be easy; I find it impossible. I don’t believe in the neo-liberal crap that people are in complete control of their destiny and that they choose to be ‘poor’, ‘unemployed’ etc. At the same time, I do believe that being poor is a matter of mentality and to move to being ‘broke’ one ought to change the way they think about the world and their place in it. In fact I did publish an article about that.

  • http://www.oneconsciouslife.com/ Kelly

    I do believe in luck.  I even believe in miracles.  I also believe that people win the lottery, but that doesn’t mean I’m betting my financial future on winning myself.  We have no control over luck or many of the circumstances we find ourselves in.  We do have control over our decisions in those circumstances and how much work we’re willing to invest in something.

    People get rich by working hard and making good choices.  But some people have farther to go than others, and just getting to the place where many other people (including most financial bloggers) start out is a struggle.  Psychological research shows us that it’s difficult to imagine a life you’ve not seen, and if you can’t even picture what something else would be like, how can you even begin to figure out how to get there? 

    Nelson, I applaud you for your hard work and for doing what a lot of other people just don’t do.  Still, some people have a lot farther to go than just out of Pop’s basement.

    • Anonymous

      If success was just a matter of luck then all those lottery winners would still be rich :-)

      Betty

  • http://www.dqydj.net PKamp3

    In sports the saying is “luck is the combination of opportunity and preparation”, but let me drop this Thomas Jefferson quote on you instead:

    “I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have.”  I like that one best.

    • Anonymous

      “Success is where preparation and opportunity meet”Bobby Unser

      My favorite: 
      “No one can cheat you our of ultimate success but yourself.”
      Ralph Waldo Emerson

      Betty

  • http://www.sooverdebt.com Andrea @ SoOverDebt

    For the record, my post wasn’t directed at you in any way, shape, or form. And I actually checked to make sure the word “luck” was never used. I said it’s a combination of factors – some choices, some not – and not a single choice or a single circumstance. Big difference in my mind, but thanks for sharing your opinion here instead of a gigantic 20-paragraph comment on my site. 

    • Anonymous

      I’m curious, what would be an example of something that effected your life but wasn’t a choice?
      Betty

  • Anonymous

    “it makes me upset that someone can just write off my efforts by declaring that the only reason I’ve been able to accomplish what I have is because I haven’t had any setbacks.”
    THANK YOU, Nelson. 

    I know that I had the luck to be born into a family with parents who made sure I did my homework and supported me, but when bloggers write that the reason certain people are successful because they are white/middle class/whatever is an insult. I chose to bust my butt in high school and college and at work when other white/middle class/whatever people were watching music videos and binge drinking. It’s offensive when people say that a person’s beginnings are the most important factor in where they end up. They aren’t. 

    • Anonymous

      Chris Gardner, Oprah Winfrey, John Paul Dejoria, Sheldon Adelson and Kirk Kerkorian are living proof that it’s not your circumstance but your determination and attitude that causes success.  Want more proof? Google “born poor and now rich” and you’ll get reams of results. Also, I never tire of posting this: How not to be poor 
      Betty

    • Katie

      But do you know the statistics behind the argument that race plays SOME role in your success? A study done in NYC and Milwaukee by Princeton University showed that, given the exact same work history, education level, and interview skills (participants were trained with the same techniques), white felons were more likely to be hired than blacks with a clean record. To me, the insult is that this is going on in urban areas in the United States. To deny that your race has played at least some role in your success is to deny fact.

  • Darwin Money

    Another way luck is key is in investment returns.  If I had started working a decade earlier, I’d have seen huge stock option returns and regular 401k/IRA performance would have been appreciably better.  Instead, I have the “lost decade” to show for my investments.

    • Anonymous

      Valid point. Quite valid.

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  • Afford Anything

    I believe luck plays the biggest role in so far as it determines 1) the century you live in, and 2) the country you live in. Living in a free, first-world country like the U.S. or Canada is a HUGE stroke of luck, compared to living in southern Sudan or Zimbabwe or Saudi Arabia. And living in the 21st century is a HUGE stroke of luck — my life would be very different if I were a 13th-century Cambodian. Beyond that, however, the importance of luck starts to diminish.

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